British study claims moderate drinking during pregnancy is safe

Note: Before you read the following article, please keep in mind that there is no definitive proof of what is considered a safe amount of alcohol to consume during pregnancy. Therefore, we recommend NO alcohol during pregnancy because alcohol consumption can lead to Fetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorders. Why take the chance?

Moderate Alcohol In Pregnancy Is Safe?

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June 18, 2013 at 2:26 pm

Pregnant? Don’t Drink.

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May 15, 2013 at 4:39 pm

Fathers can be supportive too

affections,couples,expectant mothers,families,men,parents,people,pregnancies,womenSoon-to-be fathers can be supportive of their pregnant partners abstaining from alcohol for the nine months of pregnancy. This additional support can be very helpful to pregnant women as they go through the changes to their body and their lifestyle in anticipation of baby. Many couples enjoy going out and may consume alcohol together during a meal, at a party, or at a bar and while a pregnant women’s partner gets to enjoy their alcohol, this may be challenging for some women. Check out this story of a husband abstaining from alcohol in support of his wife, from The Fix:

In February, my wife and I stopped drinking. For some couples, this would be a minor sacrifice. But Neena and I met and courted at bars across downtown Manhattan. We fell in love toasting sunsets under thatched roofs throughout Central America. For us, dinner without wine isn’t much of a meal, and a weekend without time spent in a dark bar isn’t much of a weekend.

Sobriety didn’t arrive unannounced. We spoke at length and prepared for it, much as one readies for an imminent storm. Still, it was a shock to learn on a random Monday morning that Sunday night’s wine had been our last. We should’ve splurged on better bottles.

At this point I should mention that my wife’s not an alcoholic. Neither am I. She’s pregnant, and I’m trying to be supportive.

When it comes to incendiary topics, partner sobriety during pregnancy runs a close second to expectant mothers drinking alcohol. Pity the woman who turns to mommy blogs and baby forums for advice on broaching the subject of alcohol use with her partner. Should the all-knowing crowd deem her husband or boyfriend’s drinking as excessive, she is urged to leave this good-for-nothing sperm donor. Even when they’re not labeled alcoholics, drinking partners are regularly condemned online as traitors for lifting a single beer.

Fortunately, the middle ground is more reasonable. Hidden among the hysteria, most expectant mothers ask just one thing of their partner: Don’t be an asshole. For some couples, this means dual sobriety. For most, though, partners continue to drink in moderation. Writing on the web, some women even take pride in being the “DD” (dedicated driver) for their “DH” (dear husband) or “SO” (significant other).

Months before Neena got pregnant, I offered to stop drinking when the time came. When the test came back positive on that Monday morning, my abstract idealism quickly became a grim reality: Holy ****, I’m going to be sober until October. And even thereafter, with a newborn and a new life, drinking would never be the same.

A few months into our new lifestyle, I’ve realized something: Sobering up isn’t the worst idea I’ve ever had. The last time I dried out was 2005, when I was running a weekly newspaper in New York City. Between the job stress and the newspaperman’s romantic urge to hit the bottle, my nightly drunkenness was entirely justified. But it was getting out of hand. There is a breaking point, a Rubicon that must not be crossed, and it was near.

Taking a cue from a friend who’d given up the bottle for an entire year for similar reasons, I vowed to dry out for however long it took to clear my head and get a handle on things. By then, I’d been drinking for more than 20 years, starting with a mickey of blackberry brandy passed around before a middle school dance. I’ve always been an enthusiastic, loyal drinker. In fact, after smoking weed in high school and sucking down the usual pollutants in college, I spent my 20s in an exclusive relationship with alcohol.

My 2005 dry spell lasted about four months, and ended when my father died. I wouldn’t say my head was entirely clear, but I had certainly stepped back from the brink. All things considered, it was a success.

Read the rest of the story here.

May 14, 2013 at 1:48 pm

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